Ex's are just that an X...for a reason

Sometimes whenever things don't go your way you feel like resorting back to the past because you tend to remember the good things in people of the past, and can only think of how much your life sucks in the present. I think the greatest lesson I have learned from past boyfriends is that you will never have the same relationship you had after a long break up, things will never be the same, people change, grow and move on. Just as they have moved on, you have to too. If you're not with a person, it is for a reason...and all that BS about true love comes back is crap. If they really loved you they would have never left, or gave you reason to leave.It is so easy to get wrapped up in the past. All you can think about is the good time, times you laughed, felt pretty, and appreciated. But the important thing for any one to do is really evaluate what went wrong in the relationship. Was he disrespectful? Fulfill your needs and desires? Was he there for you during hard times? Did he listen? Was he affectionate? Compassionate? Loving? Interested in your dreams and goals? If any of the answers to those questions happen to be no you should never reconsider that person. You are worth more than just a pat on the shoulder or a good morning. you are worth more than just a "you look alright" you're worth a "You are gorgeous inside and out" you're worth a "You're most beautiful in the morning with out the makeup" even worth a " I love you just the way you are" if a man is not telling you those things, you should probably think about how you view your self. sometimes we allow people to treat us certain ways because we have a poor view of ourselves. We have to love every bit of our selves before we could possibly have the capacity to love anyone else. I guess what I am trying to say is, life is too short to mope over one person if they are not treating you the way you want to be treated move on..do better ...dream...lets dream.