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Greensboro, NC, United States
I am a person, twin, friend, lover, aquaintance, daughter, sister, parent (of a dog..lol),elite, sutdent, educated mixed women with a mind of my own I am..Independant, friendly,cordial, mannerly, mean, nice, outspoken, shy, insecure, conceited, happy, sad, me and no one else <3 .

Friday, May 29, 2009

Bougie folk: Im just sayin


There is possibly nothing more irritating than someone who came from nothing, made it to something, and acts like they are so much better than you. let me get one thing straight with people all around the globe...if you come from an affluent environment then it is expected of you to act as such, but I REALLY wish that at least those who made it out of the poverty and misfortune could learn to relate to those who are still there. When ever you lose compassion for the less fortunate and treat people like second class citizens..it may be that one day you will find yourself back in the same predicament because PRIDE always comes before an abrupt and costly fall. I just get so sick of people not being down to earth. People need to come to the realization that it is OK to be who you are as well as wealthy ..BUT IT IS NOT OK to be wealthy and forget who you are. I'm just saying people without the ability to relate to others who WILL NOT BE A SUCCESS you may have money cars and clothes but do you have interpersonal relationships? that will last far beyond the time when money cars and clothes are still even relevant? Who will you turn to on your death bed? who will be sitting there telling you its going to be OK after hearing the bad news? oh NO! money wont be there..cars ...clothes? NOPE NOPE NOPE ..we don't need to just see the dream..we need to live the dream be the dream....but be ourselves in the process....lets dream.

Golden


Have you ever dated someone that was completely what you were looking for in a man...I mean from his head to his toes!! He was just the bomb! and then their was just this ONE thing that you couldn't deal with...this ONE thing you couldn't approve that just sent you over the edge. I mean in general their are alot og GREAT guys out their. I mean they are handsome, smart, funny, and everything you think you want but then there is just this ONE thing that just...just....I mean you just can't deal with it. But have you ever dated someone who was like the last guy with the one thing....and you tolerated it. I mean you just put up with it no problem, without a fuss, no argument, no issue, you just let it go? maybe that is what love is all about...accepting the imperfections of another human being and making it work. I really love the Chrisette michelle song entitled : "Golden" if you have never heard the song I STRONGLY recommend you listen to it because it is so real to me. Here's the lyrics:
Take me back in the day when loving was pure
Love ain't going away, love is always secure
Life's not always perfect but love's always forever
Let's let true love connect let's try lasting together

I'm so ready to love, I'm so ready to promise my all
I'm so ready to give til' the day that my life is no more
I'll be everything that this woman can possibly be
Cause I'm ready to be like the olden days when commitment was golden

Be the man of my dreams and get down on one knee, Love
Say you'll be all I need and then ask me to marry you, my love
Lets take two golden bands and lets walk down the isle, Love
I'll say I do and you'll say I do, make a golden commitment, oh

I'm so ready to love, I'm so ready to promise my all oh
And I'm so ready to give till the day that my life is no more
I'll be everything that this woman could possibly be, yes I will
Cause I'm ready to be like the olden days when commitment was golden

Let's last forever (let's last forever)
No typical american shady love
Let's stay together (let's stay together)
Pray God smile upon, our everlasting love

I'm so ready to love, I'm so ready to promise my all, Yes I am
And I'm so ready to give till the day that my life is no more
I'll be everything that this woman could possibly be, yes I will
Cause I'm ready to be like the olden days when commitment was golden

I'm so ready to love, I'm so ready to promise my all yeah, yeah
And I'm so ready to give till the day that my life is no more
I'll be everything that this woman could possibly be
Cause I'm ready to be like the olden days when commitment was golden

Golden
Golden
oh oh my
Golden
Golden love
Cause commitment is golden
Mmm mmm

There is nothing greater than this...when you feel this way about someone...its magic...

.Lets Dream <3>

Divorce sucks. Never marry a cop


Today I was thinking..my parents were separated before I was even born and luckily I didn't have to deal with the drama of having divorced parents, but wow. I know this women( no names) who is going through a divorce and I overheard her talking on the phone to someone about how her child is graduating and she is having a big party for her child and the father wont help with the party because the child support is only for "necessities". I mean come on! Its your freakin child! not a dog ...She also mentioned how he wouldn't help with prom or any of the expenses that come with graduating.. and I just feel like that is bogus. I mean really if you have a child why can't you work together to give that child as much love as they can. I mean I feel like no matter how much you hate your spouse you should at least be civil and ACT like you are working together. Now I know men are dogs sometimes ( and women are too), but dag....lets have a heart. and the bad thing about it is he is some big time police officer who makes plenty of money and he had the NERVE to tell his wife.." You get child support and that's all you get" I mean really? your suppose to be someone who is enforcing right and wrong with regard to legal laws but yet you can't even obey moral ones? And most of the time he gets away without paying child support because he is an officer. Marrying a top police officer does a couple of things for you: you can...Get beat, lied to, cheated on, murdered, stolen from, etc...and guess what ....THERE ARE NO CONSEQUENCES FOR HIS ACTIONS.... Word of advice: NEVER marry a cop BE a Cop instead :-)


you can be whatever you set out to be...Let's Dream.

-Britt